I've been in the midst of various conversations that prompted me to write this post. A lot of people laugh or wonder what I mean when I use the word dickmatized, so I wanted to break it down for you.

Dickmatized is when a women is sprung off of a man's sex. She forgets all of her morals, standards, and anything of importance to her. She then revolved her life around that man.

I'm sure women like this have been around for a long time, but its becoming extremely prominent and its disheartening. Picture this; beautiful successful woman. Got a 4 year degree, nice job, own crib, driving a nice car, and more then able to pop her own bottles. You'd think she'd be with a guy who is able to match what she has right. Negative. Look out your work window. You'll see her roll up to her place of employment in her nice whip, get out the driver's seat, and you'll see a figure get out the passenger seat that will make you say hmmmm. Baseball hat, pants hanging, wearing a white tee and swagging his way over to the drivers seat like it's his shit. She's smiling like he's the next best thing since sliced bread and he's smiling too because he done found him a goof...A STRAIGHT COME UP. SUCKERRRRRRRR.

You begin to wonder...why would a women with seemingly so much going for herself settle for THAT? I have one of the answers. She's dickamatized. More then likely she told herself she'd use him as a dial-a-dick (definition: men you call only for sex, nothing more) but wasn't prepared for the smack down he put on her tail. Great sex is like crack. IT KILLS YOUR BRAINCELLS SON IT KILLS YOUR BRAINCELLS. Little by little (or immediately for the sensitive ones), she started catching feelings getting sprung, and more and more he started laying down his game and weening his way into her heart and pockets. Before she knows it, he's driving her car and she's giving him money like he's FICA all in the name of keeping that great peen around.

Or we have the other "regular joe" lady, who's dating the "regular joe" guy. She calls his phone and tells him she has a great evening planned. She rushes home, takes a bath, lights candles, get the oils out, cute outfit, heels, posed and ready for him ring the bell. One hour goes by, 2 hours. NADA. She falls asleep half naked looking like a extra for the "Tip Drill" video and wakes up only to see no missed calls. She's pissed! Calling him for a week; but not getting in. She can't eat, can't sleep, feeling all R. Kelly like. All of sudden, she receives a phone call at 1:30 am from him saying he misses her and wants to come over. She damn near breaks her neck running to the shower to freshen up. He gets there, knocks it out the BOX, and she instantly forgives him. Doesn't even question him about treating her ass a week ago. And guess what? The cycle restarts all over again.

The examples can go on and on but you get the gist of where I'm going with this. No matter the background of women, some of them still catch this dickmatized disease and I don't get it. Peen grow out the grass so why settle for the first one that comes along and whips it on you good? Moving a step forward, some of these women are simply desperate. They'll take the first guy who agrees to wife them up. Good peen or not, they just want to be someone's arm piece. Freaking pathetic.


Women fail to realize these nothing ass niggas have great sex for a reason; it's ALL THEY HAVE TO OFFER. His d*ck is his job. He knows how to sell/use it right to get everything he wants out of you and the next broad. He'll say the right things, wash your car, and be at your beck and call whenever you're ready to get laid down proper. It's all a part of his game.

Here are a few eye openers to let you know if you're dickmatized:

• Whenever you hit up a restaurant, YOU'RE SWIPING YOUR CARD. And more then likely its a drive thru because sit down joints are a no go. He has to meet his boys to go to a club or "for business" and his time is limited.
• He's driving YOUR CAR while you sit in the house patiently waiting for him to come back to spend some quality time with you, or so you can go and run errands.
  
• He's always at YOUR house. Either because he lives at home with his mom, his wife/girlfriend, or you wouldn't feel comfy in his place anyway because it doesn't meet your standards.
• You can't take him around friends and family because you think someone will have something to say. Plus you'd rather just stay holed up in the bedroom anyway.
• You're the one always buying gifts but all you get in return is his d*ck in a box. Hell it's all he can afford, or all he thinks you're worth.
• He don't call you for days, ignores your call, but call you days/weeks later in the booty call hours for a quick romp in the sack.
• You know he has a wife, girlfriend, or a slew of women, but you're content as long as he makes his scheduled pit stops at your crib to give you a tune up.

I can continue but that would take all day. WOMEN, WE'VE GOT TO DO BETTER! There are good guys out here (don't ask me where though LOL) but we're somehow over looking them. We're focusing on things that don't matter (sex) instead of the things that do (job, lifestyle, etc.). You don't go to a car lot and buy the first car you see on the lot do you? No, you evaluate that bad boy first. You look all in it, under it, and then take it out for a test drive to see if it meets your expectations. THEN you buy it. Why can't you do the same thing with men? Trust, it'll save a lot of miles on your heart AND snatch. More importantly, we'll make it harder for nothing ass niggas to exist! By stepping our game up they'll be forced to do the same. In the words of Pinky from Next Friday, "GET IT TOGETHER BABY!"

NOW DON'T GET MAD AT ME! I'M JUST HELPING YOU WATCH YOUR SETUP!

I finally downloaded saw Notorious and I was aight. It wasn't AS bad as I thought it would be but I could have definitely done without the sex scene with Biggie and Lil' Kim. It was SO MANY BREAST AND NIPPLES in that scene I felt the need to make a late night run to Popeyes. Just yuck! I think they should have paid more attention to detail because I felt like the movie was one big run on sentence.

Derek Luke did a good job...as with all of the characters. But I will say this. I do agree with some of Lil' Kim's gripes about the movie. Every time they showed her she was damn near naked, getting eff'd, or just finished getting rodded out. I WAS SO TIRED of seeing her naked tail. Moreover, it didn't show her in a positive light at all. If she wasn't screwing, she was getting screwed over. I don't think that was fair. They pretty much boxed her character in and I didn't like it. However, she should have paid more attention before signing over the rights to the movie. Her setup was NOT watched. SMH

Like I said before, you can't blast one person and not everyone. I refuse to believe Faith was as "innocent" as they tried to make her appear. She didn't look or get high in one scene and we all know how she got down back in day. Furthermore, do I think Diddy was the voice of reason during the beef era? No, I don't. He came off like an angel in that movie and I was so far fetched it was ridiculous.

All in all, I'm glad I didn't pay for it. It was good to sit in the crib and watch, not pay $9.

Jamie Fox feat. T-Pain-Blame it



<----------ME GETTING IT!! "YA YA!!!" LOL Jamie Fox know he ain't lying about that likka. BLAME IT! I went out last Thursday and the club went nuts when the DJ played this. I almost broke my damn heel going IN on this song. LOL

The Dream-Rockin' That Thang



The Dream may not have a "sanger" vocals but he is indeed the "radio killer." The clubs and airwaves are going to eat this up.


Keyshia Cole-Brand New



Am I the only one SUPER EXCITED Keyshia is finally singing about new subjects? I simply love the way her vocals softly rode his melodic beat. The guy doing adlibs and singing in the background complimented her extremely wells.


Jeremiah-Birthday Sex



*COUNTDOWNS MONTHS,WEEKS,DAYS,MINUTES, AND SECONDS TO MY BIRTHDAY* LOL. YESSIR! Jeremiah is a Chi-town artist. Not sure if he'll ever make it BIG, but this song goes hard in my city. I can do without all the scrawny little boys hip rolling to his song like it's the cute thing to do. I VOTE NO!

(I, as well as a host of family and friends have not been able to find this Chicago Sun-Times paper to save my life!)

It warms my heart to see Barack is not only accepted in the black community, but all over the world as well. People tried to make this election into a race issue. Saying we were only voting for Barack because he's black. Not once did they ever take into consideration we were voting for him because he IS the most qualified candidate for the job.

As I looked into the crowd at Grant Park last night I was excited to see the melting pot that encompassed the park and surrounding streets. Every ethnicity was there fellowshipping with each other in pure celebratory bliss. That was a rare sight and I am immensely proud to say this happened in my city. The same city which helped assist Obama along his path to greatness.

We broke down many barriers last night. The most obvious being electing the first black president. Moreover, we showed the world that we can come together and celebrate positively, as well as work together as a team to reach a common goal.

Americans pat yourselves on the back! History was made and you were there front and center. Our children, and their children will read about this in history books and you'll proudly be able to say "I was there. I helped make that happen." Not only did you witness greatness, you assisted in it.

Well, it's been a while since I took time to breath on a post, but I just want to give my point of view about November 4th. NO...this is NOT necessarily a political post. I was recently talking with a friend, and he said something to the effect like, "if Obama wins, I'ma act a fool." Eventho I ignored the stupidity of his comment, I began to think. (I'm a very logical thinker). After toiling around with my thoughts, I came to the conclusion that on November 4th...EXPECT A RIOT!

I don't know how severe it will be, but I can guarantee that it will be a riot on November 4th, regardless of the outcome from the Presidential race. Let's indulge, shall we?

Let me focus on the lighter part of the possible reprocussions. If Obama wins, stories like this (where a guy got shot 3 times for wearing an Obama t-shirt) will multiply. People like this guy in the picture below...
...(where it states on the back of his shirt: "Nigger Please!! It's a WHITE house") will probably act in a violent way if Obama wins. Most of West Virgina will go ballistic. Bill O'Reily and Fox News would probably look pissed and be the last channel to declare the victory to Obama. This whole thing could get ugly. A new nation of James Earl Rays will arise and post themselves in an abandon building waiting on one shot. But most importantly, a riot will happen. I can see it now..."F*ck Obama! Biden is my President!" Old YT people (some who may have had a role in beating the living sh*t out of a black or two during the Civil Rights movement, or can say that their grandparents [not ancestors] owned a slave) will be beyond pissed.

Let's not totally focus on the YTs. Black people are gonna think they are exempt from crime for atleast a week. I promise, some black guy, some where, is thinking..."yeah, I'ma kill this fool. I might get time, but hell...I got a black President. I might get a pardon." FAIL in the making. Other possible events: Black History Month would effectively be acknowledge, Jesse Jackson would hire a hitman or literally try to "cut that niggas balls off," etc.

And that's just the lighter of the two reprocussions.

If Obama loses...awwwww sh*t! (Do I really need to go on for 4 more paragraphs?)