My boy Phiffe, The King Of Controversy, tagged me in this note on Facebook. I enjoyed it so much I asked him if I could post it! He ain't speaking nothing but truth...I'm just sayin'


So I was thinkin...

Why can’t women have sex for a few months without having to be in a relationship? I’m saying…just because we shared that together doesn’t mean I know all I need to know…neither do you.

Brotha,’s why is that all we seem to think about it sex…we can’t just go out to have a good time without always being on the hunt? Does our manhood really have to be defined by how many women we sleep with? Didn’t that go outta style in college?

Why do women always blame men for their negative relationship issues? Men have always been men…just because you made some stupid decisions don’t mean it’s our fault. How many times must we tell you that we don’t think about it the way you do?!?! How many times does it take for you to realize that maybe it’s the person in the mirror whose responsible for your bad relationship issues?

Brotha’s, whatever ever happened to the “pull out method?” Even if you aren’t using a condom, how in the world can you be mad or shocked that she’s pregnant after consistently letting the doves fly like that?

Sista’s, I’m pro-choice, not pro-abortion, but how do you justify not having an abortion as a moral issue, but ya ass in the air wasn’t one…kinda hypocritical isn’t it? You don’t have to be for abortion, or have one, but damn you sound stupid labeling it a moral issue.

Brotha’s, pick ya damn pants up and wear regular clothes. Especially you late 20’s & 30 year olds…pants at your thigh, and shirts and jackets looking like an etch a sketch rainbow explosion doesn’t exactly speak of maturity.

Sista’s, why ya’ll sooo fat? Is it a hair issue? A cultural issue? A Harolds issue? Baby, I love you but you’re not thick…you were thick about 30 lbs ago. And when you say all I need to do is loose my stomach…well you’re wrong!! You need to lose half a body? From one fat person to another…pull away from the table, and exercise. Maybe you need to adopt a pony tail doo for a bit…or go natural for about 40 lbs…and then come back to the perm!

Just to be fair…I’m FAT TOO!! LMAO. We can work on it together but I still think its an alarming problem amongst our women…What the hell is going on? Why we don’t work out as a culture…why do we attribute so many active hobbies as being “white?” Or that’s what white people do?

Continued…and please, those of you without kids...there just really is no excuse!!! Lets get it together.

Speaking of kids…Ladies, how in the hell do you let a no job, no career expectations kinda brotha continually let the doves fly….I’m all for good sex but I aint letting the hood rats I deal with from time to time have my baby. Lets not separate good sex from good sense.

Brotha’s, they have actually created a new sexual orientation for you “down low” types…MSM. They call it men having sex with men…I’m serious on this one…Google it with AIDS/HIV…This is nuts. I call it Gay, Homosexual, in the closet Gay. When did having sex with another man never Not Be GAYYYYY? HUH?!?!? I’m not at all bigoted towards gay men, but as a demographic of society, this whole I’m not Gay denial is why black women are currently representing almost 2/3rds of all new AIDS/HIV cases….sleeping with these Gay men, who are in denial of who they are. At least let the sista know your struggle and let her decide...Its appalling that you out here portraying this fake ass heterosexual lifestyle…ruining the lives of some of these women….not to even talk about the children involved.

ALL OF US? How in the hell are we at 70% for single parent households compared to 50% for Hispanics, and 27% for Whites? And we getting AIDS/HIV at alarming rates, filling the jails, and killing Chicago Public School Students like it’s going outta style? Man we need to get it together…this is on us!!

I'm just sayin...

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